Can you tell me about a time when you were disappointed with your performance?

ExperienceResilience

Purpose

This question is all about self-awareness and growth. They want to see if you can recognize your own shortcomings and take steps to improve. It's like asking about a weakness but in a more personal way.

Tips

  • Pick a real example where you didn't meet your own standards. It could be academic, clinical, or even extracurricular.
  • Explain why it was disappointing and what you learned from it.
  • Show how you took responsibility and what actions you took to improve.
  • Use the STAR-L method: Situation, Task, Action, Result, Lessons Learned.

Common mistakes

  • Saying you've never been disappointed in yourself. Everyone has those moments!
  • Blaming others or external circumstances for your disappointment.
  • Ending on a negative note without showing any growth or resolution.

Background

Use STAR-L to structure responses to questions about your experiences: -Situation: Briefly set the scene - where/when and what was going on? -Task: What was your specific role or challenge in that situation? -Action: What you did - focus on your steps, decisions, and contributions. -Result: Share the outcome - ideally positive or meaningful. -Lessons Learned: Reflect on what you took away and how you’ve grown.